What men hate in relationship, what men must avoid to keep a smooth relationship -S.A.O. Sage

Relationship is a kind of bound that exists between two set of persons, coming from a total different backgrounds. It takes two to tangle, if these two must coexist to hold a relationship, there are certain things each must avoid or keep doing. In this article, I shall focus on what women should avoid to keep on a smooth relationship with their men.

Just as there are certain things women don't like in relationships, there are certain things men don't also like in relationships. Below is the list of what men don't like in relationships. And in the next article i shall talk about what men should avoid in relationships

1. Comparing their property (gadget) with another man: For most guys, their gadget have a lot to do with their egos. Even if they are driving a rickety set of wheels, they will never accept that their car is a bad ride. Men want women to understand this quirky bond they have with their gadget. Comparing a man's gadget to another man's is as good as disrespecting him, in one of the worst possible ways.

2. Men hate it when women become excessively
dependent: Men love it when they can help a woman. Being able to solve problems for women is in fact, a major driver of a man's ego. But there is a fine line between dependency which drives ego and dependency which causes frustration.

3. Overanalyzing social situations and conversations: Men aren't the best at reading between the lines which makes them really annoyed when women overanalyze conversations and social situations. Guys typically like to take things on face value and are unlikely to be as good as women in understanding the emotion or the hidden meaning in a conversation.

4. Guys freak out when their girls keep in touch with an ex: Guys may not say it out aloud all the time but they get really jealous about their partner's exes. They cringe at the thought of their girlfriend or wife talking with an ex. No matter how cool a guy pretends to be, it is nearly impossible that he is completely okay with his woman talking to her ex.

5. Nagging about never spending enough time with her: Repeatedly asking a guy to spend more time with her is something that most couples fight about. While a woman's intention to do this may be nothing but romantic, a guy is likely to see this as needy and clingy behavior. A situation like this gets worse when it concern's the amount of time a guy spends with his own friends. Meeting up with friends and hanging out with the guys is seen as something that all men should do. Any form of nagging in this regard will really get to his nerves.

6. Men hate it when women mess with their gadgets: Most men are really possessive about their gadgets. They don't like it when someone messes around with their settings, favorites and other personalized aspects of their iPhones, iPads, laptops, computers, GPS or any other gadget.
This sense of attachment creates a lot of frustration when their girlfriends or wives use their gadgets and unknowingly change a few settings here and there.

7. Using sweet and cute names in front of others:
Calling a guy by cute and sweet names may be a woman's way of expressing her love for him but from a guy's perspective, cute names are somewhat of an insult towards his manliness. Guys hate to be called by mushy names simply because it erodes away their masculine image. Imagine a tough looking guy being called 'cutie pie' by his girlfriend – the two don't go together

To keep a smooth relationship with your male partner, you need to avoid all these aforementioned. And for male spouse, there are certain things you need to avoid to enjoy your female partner if you truly love her and ready to show her care. I shall explain this in the next article.

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God bless your relationship.